How do you find one!?

I spent probably a few hours in a few stores over the past few days trying to find something to use because it seems cowash isn't enough moisture for me (first day was a bit crunchy because I didn't rinse enough, second was dry with a little more rinsing... can't find a middle).

It seems that nearly every item I looked at had a silicone of some sort or cost more than $10 for a small bottle. It seems nearly everything has Dimethicone (or something like that) and sulfates are way over drying and I don't believe a sulfate-free shampoo can clean that out.

And are Chlorides bad? I see a lot of those too. It's like I need to carry a dictionary with me or something. I go the Curly Girl book but it doesn't seem to cover every ingredient.
3B - Fine/Norm - Norm Elas/Por - Protein friendly?

For Me:
Weekly Low-Poo: SM Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Shine Shampoo
Rinse-Out: Suave Naturals Rosemary Mint
Leave-In: SM Coconut & Hibiscus Curl and Style Milk - Giovanni Light Leave In*
Style: Curls Goddess Curl Gel* SM Coconut & Hibiscus Souffle*

For my Curly Babies:
CoWash: L`Oreal Paris Hydracharge Cleansing Conditioner

* Currently Testing