So I'm on now. I have a meet up with a man tonite. We talked for a while last night and he seems "normal." He's a couple of years younger than me. He was in law enforcement for 28 years and is now retired. He owns a big log cabin in MIchigan and comes out here for the Winters. He has a daughter living here. He has 4 daughters and 5 grandchildren. I'm not expecting much, so I won't be disappointed. I'm nervous, but excited to get back out there. I winked at another man this morning. Keeping my fingers crossed.

I've had some men like or wink at me. Should I respond back that I'm not interested or just ignore them? I don't want to be rude, but responding could get time consuming.