I just remembered that Shea Moisture came out with a cowash conditioner. Maybe that's the answer for those who want a natural alternative.

Sadly, I can't use it because my hair hates the coconut and hibiscus line.
The C&H cowash is not formulated like the rest of the pink line. I think the ingredients are posted in the "new shea moisture " thread. I really like the cowash but find the rest of the pink line too heavy and stinky-sweet. The cowash has a light coconut smell.

I have had much better results with products labeled cowash, cleansing conditioner, etc. in general they are lighter than regular conditioner but not as stripping as lo-poos.
2A / F / MD / LP / ?E / BSL --- CG since Dec. 2012

This is what I'm happiest with right now.
Co-wash: CJ DailyFix
Lo-poo: DermOrganic low-poo
RO: SS Caitlin's co
Leave-in: SheScentIt Okra Repair condish
PT: SS Caitlin's + SS PT
Stylers: Volumax Mega Gel, Max Green Styling Gel, DermOrganics Spray Gel
Techniques: Plopping & Pixie Diffusing.
glycerin, honey, oils & butters Protein!