This post is very disturbing. Well, it sounds like you have a lot to deal with but I'm sure your hair is gorgeous and I'm happy you have the good sense to be proud of it. Hold onto that. Don't let anybody, even those that are closest to you make you ashamed of who you are and the way God, nature, and most culpably your parents made you. And take heart: you won't live at home forever. Pretty soon you'll be out of the house. In the meanwhile, however, please do come on here for moral support. I would've killed for a site such as this when I was 17. Well, I'm sure it was around but I certainly hadn't caught word of it yet.
3A - C, HP, ME, HD. (Coarse, High Porosity, Medium Elasticity, High Density.)

CG since Nov. 2012

Poos: SM Moisture Retention + Yucca Baobab, TJ's Tea Tree Tingle
Condish: TJ 'sTea Tree Tingle*, SM Moisture Retention* + Curl & Shine + Yucca Baobab, Yes to Blueberries
Stylers: KCKT*, SM Curl Enhancing Smoothie* + Curl & Style Milk*, KCCC*, FSG*, CJ Pattern Pusha, Curl Keeper
Sealers: Jojoba* or Grapeseed* oil

* = HG