If you get a hair pick and flip your head upside down and pick it out, it should help separate your curls and build some volume. You may have to re-do that throughout the day to KEEP them separated though (some of my curls try to "merge" again after I separate them), or hairspray it or something.

2c/3a, fine, low porosity.

Poo: Garnier Fructis Pure Clean (yes, it has A Sulfate!!, but I have Teflon hair)
Co-wash (when I feel so inclined, which isn't often!): VO5 Kiwi Lime Clarifying Conditioner
same for both -- whatever I have in the shower at the time (I experiment a lot)
Style: EcoStyler Olive Oil <3
Dry: Diffuse or air dry, or both...depends on my mood