It's common for curly haired people to think their hair is coarse, when it's actually dry. I forget the %, but fine hair is a really high %age, medium much less and coarse hair uncommon.

I balance out the emollients with A LOT of protein. It's all about getting the protein/moisture balance right.
3a (Corkicelli), highlighted, fine, low porosity

HGs: Anything Sevi; Curly Kinks Satin Roots, Curlycue ReNew and Coil Jam; homemade FSG and okra gel; soap bars; UFD Curly Magic; Botanical Spirits Jellies, CJ Repair Me, Aloe Fix