Thanks guys. It's good to see that it's not just me who has this issue. I feel like a curly imposter when I don't put any styling products. I wouldn't mind wavy hair if it wasn't a frizzy, poofy mess when it is wavy. I just don't like that without products I have "bad" hair (what I perceive as bad, meaning just a frizz ball)
Medium texture, normal porosity, normal elasticity