Okay, I have a couple questions. First, are you CG? If so, what conditioners are you using? And finally, do you know your hair's properties (porosity, texture, density)? If you could share those someone might be able to give you more tailored advice.
Medium/coarse, low porosity, dense, mix of 3s
CG (again) since Nov. 2012

Cleanse: SM Moisture Retention, Elucence MBC, KC Come Clean
Condish: Giovanni DL, Cure Care, Ion Treatment, GVP Balm, AOHR
Stylers: KCCC, SM Souffle, AOMM, SS CEJ, JCRR, JCCC

Trying out steaming!