Males . . .

I am a 34-year-old man and have been with my fiancee for nine years. She was my first sexual partner. I am now tormented by lost experiences. We don't want to split up and she's OK with me having the occasional sexual experience with other girls but friends don't want to get involved with such a situation. What should I do?
Originally Posted by Saria
Stop. That can't be real life.

Lost experiences?? How are they lost if you never had them??

I mean what about before you met her? You had all that time to experience. Like. Ugh.
Originally Posted by annabananalise
Plus you just know that if she decides to sleep with other men the dude will not be cool with it.
This is typical having your cake and eating it too.