I don't mean to say children are willy nilly or the maternal instinct is willy nilly. But the idea of a 35 y/o woman just going out on a limb hoping to create that perfect story is a little willy nilly. I mean, my husband and I separated when I was 35 and four years later, I'm still not divorced! I'm so glad I wasn't on a time table hoping to remarry and have more kids...

You just never know how something like that will work out.
Originally Posted by spiderlashes5000

Yes I understand. It's not only about it being a perfect story but maybe just any story. Sounds like she might not be happy enough with her current status. But yes you never know.