I have slightly different hair than you, but I had the whole "three layers of different curls" problem. A proper haircut solved that instantly. If you develop a bad shape when you let it dry curly, my first thought is maybe a different hair cut from a curly-friendly stylist. Even if you're trying for less curl, someone who understands curls is still the best to help with that.

For me, a light combing with a wide-toothed comb when wet will instantly loosen my near-ringlets out into bumpy poofy waves.
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I'm mostly away doing field work through mid-May.

Hair: curlybob, fine, dense, low-po, big waves/ringlets (2C/3A)
Co-Wash: Nature's Gate Herbal Conditioner
RO: YTC Carrot, Aubrey Organics GPB
LI: BS Shea Soft Styling Cream (HG)
Styling: KCCC, Garnier P&C Gel
1xWeek: low-poo, gelatin PT or Joico K-Pak
Hair Likes: aloe, coconut oil, humidity, protein, long walks on the beach