So many of my friends must think I dropped off the face of the earth soon after graduation, only to briefly surface to say I lost a family member and then slink back into the shadows. Do they even feel like my friends anymore? Is it just because I have nothing in my life that I still consider them a part of it?

Will I be able to get them back if I just message them out of the blue a few months from now?

Not now. I can't deal right now.
Originally Posted by wild_sasparilla

(((Hugs))) Many of mine think the same about me. I get messages every other day from them, asking me to come back to Facebook. I have avoided it since my dad died, and some others things happened. Truth be told, I don't want to. I will when I want to. If you want to talk to me, call me or text me or something. I don't need to post on FB to prove I am okay. That's not a very accurate gauge of ones well being.
When I hear terms like "hipster" I think, who told cliques they could leave high school??