I'm sorry this happened to you. Can you block her from calling? Also, keep track of her contact. Do you have a restraining order?

As someone who got out of an abusive relationship, I remember the emotional turmoil that occurred afterwards.

Please be kind to yourself. You DO deserve someone to sit with you in the e/r and I hope you find that person someday. You are an amazing, beautiful lady and anyone would be lucky to have you.
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