i agree with what the others said. i noticed you use wen, i am not sure that their products are cg, may contain sulphates/cones.
also, if you relaxed your hair, that part of your hair will eventually need to be cut off as you cannot reverse that damage. it is good you stopped a year ago as you have a lot of new growth to work with.
once you figure out your hair properties, come back and let us know what they are are and what products you are using and your routine. hair properties will help you get a better idea of what ingredients work best for your hair, ie, protein for one.
we can give you lots of help once you come back with this information.
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3a, some 2c & 3b, medium texture, porosity normal, low elasticity
washing/cowashing, conditioning, protein tx: [I] curl junkie products
leave in:cj conditioners and treatments as leave in
styling: cj aloe fix gel, cj pattern pusha, cj honey butta leave in, cj cccc, cj ciab.
sealants - jane carter nourish & shine