When you detangle, are starting at the ends and working your way UP to the roots? I used to just plow through my hair b4 I found this site. Oils don't give much "slip", but something like KCKT is designed for detangling. You might also look into a Denman brush- works much better for me than a comb.
2C/ Coarse/ Normal porosity/ SW Florida/ Salt & Pepper
Cleanse: AIA cowash, TJ Tea Tree Condish
Condish: JC Too Shea, Tresemme Botanique
Stylers: flax/okra gel or KCCC + CJ PP or JC Spiralicious
Experimenting with Got2B Ultra gel and loving it so far!