I don't know too much bc I'm still learning myself how to properly take care of my hair but I suffered from extreme dry hair too and I noticed the only things that seemed to help are steam treatments and cowashing. See if you can find a salon and get steam treatments done a few times and see if it helps any. That's what I did before I bought a steamer to do it at home and it made a huge difference. And I use As I Am cowash every 2-3 days and that has helped too.