Krullenbol, it is indeed very rude and people don't understand. When I was younger, I was underweight and the doctor's put me on pills which didn't work and practically accused my mother of not feeding me. Eventually my weight normalized, but I remember being very embarrassed when I was teased and harassed.

I love some of the posts in this thread, including the flowers in a truck!
2/c Coarse hair med. density.
Highly porous. Color over grey.
I love all the Curl Junkie products. Still experimenting with gels and curl creams. Still hoping for 2nd day hair....
Every day is a gift