So, I'm a total newbie here and I'm in desperate need of hair advice!
So, I have hair that's in between 3b and 3c and almost 3 years ago I bleached my hair platinum blonde and then dyed it purple the same day and then dyed it back to black less then 3 days later. And then, stupid me, bleached the underside of my hair blonde again to make it blue and eventually dyed it back to black again because the color didn't come out the way I wanted. After that, I was consistently dying my hair black about every month because my hair looked healthier when I did. It didn't really feel healthy like it used to, but it just looked nicer.
Needless to say, my hair hasn't been the same since before I bleached it. I've never really had kinky hair before and the underside where I bleached my hair for a second time is really kinky now. Also, my hair used to come out with waves that would end in corkscrews when I would come out of the shower. Now my hair comes, mostly flat out of the shower, but fluffs once dry.
Before I bleached my hair, my hair was about an inch past my shoulders. Since I bleached my hair, it has broken so much, it is now barely at my shoulders. About two months ago, I noticed that my ends are just flaking off. I've been really freaking out about it and was wondering if I should just chop all my hair off and start from scratch. When I voiced the idea to my younger sister she told me not to and I'd regret it, and honestly, she's right. I will totally regret it and feel horrible if I do. But at this point I'm not sure if that's just the right decision at this point. My hair's just so damaged and uneven it's just sad!!!!
What should I do????? Is there a *somewhat* happy compromise????????