My hair is fine/low porosity. I use a lot of really "rich" products, but don't care for the SM products, especially the Coconut & Hibiscus line. It's just too heavy if you understand the difference. Sits on my hair and doesn't bet absorbed. Had to wash it out (I use natural soap bars to cleanse.)

My hair only tangles when I use a product it doesn't care for (it's castor oil and mineral oil that do it to me.) You may be able to cowash the oil/butter out, if not try a gentle lowpoo or cleansing conditioner with coco b in it.Then try some "lighter" products.
3a (Corkicelli), highlighted, fine, low porosity

HGs: Anything Sevi; Curly Kinks Satin Roots, Curlycue ReNew and Coil Jam; homemade FSG and okra gel; soap bars; UFD Curly Magic; Botanical Spirits Jellies, CJ Repair Me, Aloe Fix