Thanks for the feedback. I honestly don't & won't relax her hair! Just frustrated.

I've looked at chocolatehairvanillacare. I posted here to find other mothers or curlies who have close to my daughters hair to help with suggestions.

I am going to try Mixed Chicks and see how that works or maybe Shea Moisture since I've heard good things about it.

I am just in desperate need of something that holds moisture in or gives her hair moisture and something that stops the frizz, puffiness, and knots.

I want to be able to take care of her hair so she'll know what to do when she's older and wont want to relax or straighten it.