Oh, that's so sweet of you to say! I typically just use conditioner (usually Herbal Essences or just whatever my mom has got from the store) in the shower and brush it out, and then typically a leave in product--some sort of gel. I recently went out on a limb and got Garnier Fructis Style Curl Construct Mousse, the Frizz Ease Dream Curls Curl-Perfecting Spray, and Not Your Mother's Kinky Moves Curl Defining Hair Cream, but haven't tried them yet, so I don't know. Are they good products to invest in for my hair/hair type??

I think one of my problems is that my hair tends to frizz when I diffuse it, and the curls get very small and tight--certainly not as big or bouncy as I'd like! Any tips or tricks? Thank you all so much for being so helpful and welcoming, even as I ask these stupid questions!