Lotsa makes a very good point. I remember Fantasia (who won American Idol) saying that when she became suicidal, she wasn't thinking of anyone else. She had become famous, was richer than she had ever dreamed of being, had a baby girl that she loved but was in a terrible depression. I believe that in that state a person is kind of selfish in that he or she is unable to think or care about anything except their own misery. And as Lotsa said, perhaps she thought you wouldn't understand,

I know you wanted to be there for her and you want to help her now. You are a wonderful friend and when she is better, the two of you will again be very close.
2/c Coarse hair med. density.
Highly porous. Color over grey.
I love all the Curl Junkie products. Still experimenting with gels and curl creams. Still hoping for 2nd day hair....
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