You can still say hi and tell her that you love her. in fact, you should def do those things

I know a lot of people think suicide is selfish, but i have a slightly different view. Maybe because when my friend did it, and I was that last phone call, I could hear the hurt. When someone is in so much pain that the only way they know to end it is to their life, I don't necessarily see that as selfish. I get that they are only thinking of themselves, but that is an intense about of pain to get a person to reach that point. if it was "physical pain", we would understand