Your hair is beautiful girlie! Your volume isn't overwhelming at all. I'd say it's a pretty normal amount of volume for someone with wavy hair. Do you know any of your properties? (porosity, density, etc.) Those things help determine which products would fit for you. Please don't pay attention to anyone's nasty comments, going through high school myself I know exactly what you're going through. Just remember that these people won't matter in a few years once you're in college, and try sticking up for yourself! When you have confidence, you'll find bullies suddenly become a lot more pathetic and less hurtful.