I have a 23 inch circumference head and a 5'0" body! Big, huh?

This is kinda hair, but not really BUT...

How can I use my hair to make it look smaller?
What kind of clothes should I wear?

2c - 3a hair
High Porosity
High Density
Coarse hair
Blasian: Japanese and African American

Wish list:
Put hair down with my shower hair!