Hi neighbour! (I'm Belgian )

I can't help you with most of the questions you ask, only with one...
About the amount of hair you're losing: that is absoluuuutely normal, I'm losing more than you are don't worry! You probably stopped combing your hair (or at least you are combing it less? Whatever the answer is: combing/brushing your hair when it's dry is bad for curls...If you ever feel the need to comb/brush, do it when you're showering after applying conditioner).
When you stop combing it, the hair you lose naturally each day just doesn't come into your comb... You still lose it though, so you get the feeling that you lose it all at once...
2c: fine texture, normal porosity, normal elasticity, normal-high density
CG since March 8th 2013
Low Poo: Rainforest Radiance shampoo
Conditioner: Yes to Cucumbers
Styler: BRHG, Garnier Fructis Gel
PT: Gliss Kur Repair & Volume

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