I had a post about this very subject in the pregnancy and parenting board if you want to do a search.

The same thing happened to me, and 5 years later my hair still doesn't look the way it used to and neither does my body .

The upside is that I can blow it out in a fraction of the time it used to take me, but I really just want my curls back.
If you got nothing to bring to the table - don't even bother sitting down.