There are a lot of us that wet, use a rinse out and style every day. For some, it's really hard to achieve "second" day hair. I'm too perfectionistic about my hair. Have the time to make sure it's at it's best all of the time.

One of the first things you want to do is determine you hair properties. Here's a link to help Curly Hair Basics | Live Curly Live Free It's the best way to choose ingredients/products. If you're using the right products/techniques, have a good haircut--you have a better chance of achieving multi day hair. Even under the best of circumstances, it may, or may not be achievable.
3a (Corkicelli), highlighted, fine, low porosity

HGs: Anything Sevi; Curly Kinks Satin Roots, Curlycue ReNew and Coil Jam; homemade FSG and okra gel; soap bars; UFD Curly Magic; Botanical Spirits Jellies, CJ Repair Me, Aloe Fix