Does it feel like he might be vying for your attn? That he was pouting the night it happened bc you were so (rightfully) preoccupied w/ your daughter and her family...and now trying to get your focus back on him?

Maybe he needs to be reassured he is still important?

IDK. But I want the recipe for Paleo crackers!

Yes, I agree w/ your post earlier that God can allow certain things to happen in your life to make you grow and bring you closer to him.