First, welcome!!

Sorry to answer you back with a question but can you tell my why you use Rusk Wired on the ends of your hair? Someone recently gave me a full bottle and I have no clue what to do with it!

As far as your hair, it sounds like you might be overconditioned...but I'm no expert on other people's hair...or my own for that matter!
pw - jack

Going natural for the summer...just a dab of ArcAngell!