"Do you even brush your hair?", "It seriously looks better when you straighten it", and "I don't understand how it's just so frizzy" (said on one of my good hair days) are probably my most disliked comments I've had about my hair.
With the brushing one, I assume it's because all the other curlies in my grade brush theirs out so it's poofy, but I don't really know. My response is usually "I finger detangle, but no, I don't brush it out."
I also notice that when I straighten my hair people include me more. Everyone will say hi and compliment me more.
My hair crushed my dreams,
Everything I wanted to be,
My curly hair was the death of me

Hair type: Mixture of 3a and 2b