You can threaten divorce or even cheating all day long but when you put them out in the street, the gloves really come off. And when they get served w/ those papers? It's a wrap. No more Mr. Nice Guy.

If you wanted to work it out, that's where you went wrong. Not saying you are wrong. But just if you wanted to save the marriage (which may not have been possible anyway, if he wasn't willing to get help for his alcoholism).

If you want children, don't give up on that dream. It could still happen. (I have gf's who had theirs at 40 and 41.5.)

Who knows...he might surprise you and agree to treatment. You just never know. Stay positive and hopeful. Not just about him but about your life.

Last edited by spiderlashes5000; 10-08-2013 at 04:39 PM.