Not a stupid question at all. In fact, recently I've been debating whether to cut off some of my length so I can allow the hair to curl more. Kind of the opposite problem, but it's made me think about the length and weight issue too.
3a, dense, fairly coarse, normal porosity and elasticity, just below shoulder
Low poo: Giovanni 50 50
Co-wash: aia, suave coconut, salon care
R O: Tresume Naturals, gvpcb
L I: KCKT, gvpcb
Stylers: cjpp, re : coil, kccc, brhg
Oils: coconut, argan
Experimenting with: curls rock amplifier, pantene mousse