Woke to find vm on my phone from a strange number. Turns out a friend of mine from HS is in town and is wondering if we might be able to hook up today.
I haven't seen her I'm three years. Her husband's family lives in town so she calls when they come through.
My honest thought was "oh I'm going to pretend like I didn't hear this"
I really don't want to go out of my way.

Yeah I realize that makes me not very nice. We never get together as the two of us, her three kids are also there and the husband doesn't come. And she knew she was coming to town and wasn't sure she'd have time so didn't call until late last night. . (Yes I'm rationalizing)

I do enjoy seeing her. But in between there is zero contact. No emails she doesn't do fb.

Anyway I'll take a shower and think about it

Eta. .I'm wondering why I'm so uncomfortable with "I'm sorry I won't be able to meet up with you"
I get a horrible case of the "shoulds"

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Last edited by PerriP; 11-29-2013 at 07:16 AM.