Hi guys um I'm new here and I just started going natural. I have a mixture of 3a and 3b curls. I have no idea how to handle my hair without straightening it. I ask my sister to help me, but her hair is completely 3b curls. Her ways don't work on my hair. I want to feel confident and pretty like I do when I straighten my hair. We used to relax my hair when I was younger and straighten it. I honestly do not know what to do. Please help!