Regarding more happening in certain places, it is expected. Your hair will not behave exactly the same all over your head and you most likely have slightly different damage in certain areas, plus sleep more on one side etc. Just give it time. If there is any persistent large differences once your hair has stabilized its curl pattern, then you'd might consider doing something more about it but for now I would honestly just focus on getting to know your hair and figure out what works and what doesn't.

Regarding frizz, there will always be some. On that level I would say that you'd better just accept it. Most people won't notice it anyway. If it gets worse during the day, consider applying a bit extra gel in the area.
CG since 8th of September 2013 - learning in progress!

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Cleanser: Naturelle Volumizing
Conditioner/LI: Garnier Respons Avocadooil and Shea Butter, Schwarzkopf Gliss Ultimate Volume Conditioner
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