Even I have the same hair type I used to comb my hair when I got out of the shower but that seemed to make it more frizzy and it was hard to detangle. So I started detangling while I'm in the shower (after applying conditioner). Its so much easier this way! You can try doing that.
Also, do you use a leave in? It will definitely help to stop your hair from frizzing up as it dries
Last but not the least, don't EVER hate your hair or think that its ugly.. There are SO many people out there who'd give anything to have beautiful natural hair like yours