I have 3a/3b hair and I am sick of it ruling my life. I feel like I have to schedule shower times around my hair because when I sleep on it, it gets messed up. I went to the deva salon and loved it but I can't produce the same results at home. I am a low maintenence person so I am very frustrated it takes a lot of work and it is still too volumous. I am guessing there isnt a relaxer that can make my hair 3a, is this true? Does anyone have any other advice for me?