Most of the hurtful comments I get are when I straighten my hair. (I'm glad I'm not alone in this anymore!)
At some point, I don't mind the off-hand comment, but when I straighten my hair it seems like everyone has to say something about how I should straighten it more often.
By the way, most (if not all) of the hurtful comments I get, are from women/girls. If guys comment on my hair, it's usually a compliment. Even when I put my hair in high pigtails (to make my hair look like dog ears) guys will compliment me. Probably because they don't have the guts!
I'm a 2something/3something. Started modified CG routine on 6/6/05
Cut more than ten inches from my BSL hair on 8-10-05 and growing it long again
But we're STILL adjusting.