I wish I could figure out how to avoid overconditioning! There is just such a fine line with my hair as it sounds like yours iwantcurlyhair...I ended up doing a low poo today and my hair turned out great and nice and curly...
Cowash - No Poo
Conditioner - One Condition
Gel - Light Defining Gel

Looking to try Devacurl Decadence line next! Can't wait to try it.