Try some Coconut Oil first. Just a bit rubbed into the ends of still wet hair after your shower. I have seen it do amazing things! I had highlights put in last December - they took two and a half HOURS to take the color out so you can imagine the shape my hair is in. I did have about an inch cut off a few weeks ago since the split ends were everywhere, but mine had gotten really bad. The coconut oil is new to me, but I really like to so far! It has kep me from heading back for another trim. Much more moisturizing than Jojoba (which I am a big fan of) and you get to smell yummy too!

Good luck!