I second the GF CnS Conditioning Leave-in Cream and Jessicurls CCSS.

I also sometimes use Biosilk Smoothing Balm as a styler. Despite it's name, it leaves me with a soft hold.
CG-modified since 4/05
2b/3a and 3b on occasion!
Products: The hair aisle in my own cabinets.
Best definition winner: KCCC
Best volume winner: LOOB