So, after reading this thread for a while, I decide to make up a batch of this, or my own version at least.
I will use it today on wet hair with no other products and let you all know what I think.

My first recipe:
1c hot water
1/8c vegetable glycerin
2 Tbls Aloe Gel
1/2 tsp sea salt
(I think Epsom salt is probably better, but I didn't have any on hand)
1 tsp lemon juice
1/4 tsp honey
1/4 tsp lavendar essential oil
1/2 tsp Abba WG (didn't mix in like everything else, I had to blend it)
PW: waves
frizz prone
long and layered
NEW to going wavy/curly!