Someone please help! I am a 3c with medium textured hair that is about 4-6 inches long. The problem is, is that the longer my hair gets, the more it shrinks when it is dry. I use curls coconut to max conditoner to wash with, aveda's elixir leave in conditoner, rockin' ringletts, and qhemet honeybush hair tea. Oh, and my hair is pretty well defined corkscrews the diameter of a coffee straw (except for a strange patch of hair at the top of my head). Could someone please suggest a product or a series of products to help me? I'm so desperate I've thought about relaxing again.