I can't go completely no poo, either. I find that pooing every third day and co-washing in between works best for me.
3a/Modified CG, low-poo
Jason 84% Aloe Shampoo & Conditioner
Alberto VO5 Red Curvaceous Curls Mousse or FX Curl Booster Fixative Gel or LA Looks Sports Gel
Garnier Surf Hair for refreshing
Plop time: 30 min w/ t-shirt