Condition wash once every 4 days or so with Suave Coconut Conditioner. I love love love it for this purpose. It ain't much as a leave in though.

Have tried CO washing with Aloeba, One Condition, and generic Biolage Conditioning Balm. None of them give me the squeaky seaweedy feeling that the Suave does. Also not a big fan of just rinsing, massaging scalp and restyling. HTH
I have finally realized I look my best when my hair tells me how it is going to fall, and I just make suggestions.