Are the paddle brushes with the balls at the end okay for 3c kinky curly hair? I don't want to use anything that will damage or rip my hair. I have the denman that everyone hypes up but I stopped using it because it rips out too much hair. The paddle brush with the balls on the end clumps my curls just right and doesn't snap off hair and it only gets tangled in my hair if I'm not careful. I only use it to style my hair after I've detangled with a wide tooth comb which brings me to another question :-) Is it better to detangle kinky curls with your fingers, a wide tooth comb or either?