I hope you don't mind that me and my 3a head are stalking this thread, but it is terrific

Do you think slicking hair back when it is wet to style in a bun or ponytail can cause it to break, because it is stretched when wet, then as it dries it shrinks and breaks. This is what a stylist told me, but I am not sure I believe it, and I like doing this becasue it is easier to smooth down the frizzies.