I just got my Deva curl conditioner and my Jessie curl aloeba conditioner and rockin' ringlets. I tried mixing the conditioners together but I don't think that worked very well. which would you say is better? also, I still have major frizzies. especially part my hair at the front that is lighter, almost blond not red, is frizzy but it's frizzy throughout. how do I smooth on the gel without causing frizzis?