that is a gemini board for me--
on the one hand I think its great there is a place for people to be able to come together and embrace their hair texture 4 and beyond. also, once you get off the loc board, they give great advice for taking care of your hair and keeping it moisturized. things I need in particular.
on the other, sometimes its a bit too much and people take things over board. the terms "chemical fire cream" and "hot blazing tool of torture" crack me up to no end. what I don't get is the whole "everyone needs to be nappy vibe" and yet the most revered/stalked fotki's on the site are of women with the 3b/c pattern. jokes.
I like the site for what it is. I go and complain on occasion, at the end I think there needs to be a nice blend of the two.